Showing posts with label DNA. Show all posts
Showing posts with label DNA. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 2, 2019

52 Ancestors 2019 - Ancestor #1 Ollie Ossilean Posey

Ollie O. Wilson was born Ollie Ossilean Posey on 9 September 1892 in Reynolds, Taylor County, Georgia.  Her parents were Andrew Breckenridge Posey and Mary Julia Windham.  Ollie married Judson Chesterfield Wilson on 19 November 1905 when Ollie was just 13 years old.  Ollie and Judson had two daughters, Eleanor Katherine and Myrtice Lucille.  Ollie Ossilean Posey Wilson died on the 9th of August 1977.

Ollie Ossilean Posey Wilson was my mother’s grandmother.  I first heard her name spoken when I was just seven years old.  My mother had recently joined the Mormon church and her interest in genealogy was piqued during her conversion to Mormonism.  Mother began a regular correspondence with her grandmother asking questions about her life and growing up in Georgia.  Family history became a life long passion for my mother and she passed that passion on to me.

The first ancestor I ever learned about was my great grandmother Ollie.   Her name was so unusual that I often asked about her and how she got her name.  Ollie Ossilean seemed to be an unusual name.  No one, not even great grandmother, knew why she was given this name.  Over the years as I have researched the census records for Taylor County, Georgia, I have learned that Ollie was a common name for girls, but I have yet to learn where the name Ossilean derives or why her mother, Julia, chose it.

I met Ollie in 1975 when I was around 8 years old.  My parents piled my brother and me into our car (without A/C) and we made the long trek during the hot summer from Denver, Colorado to Georgia.  I remember that trip well.  One does not forget endless car rides with no air conditioning!  Besides the heat and very few rest stops along the way, the trip was made memorable by our visit with Ollie.  She was a frail woman, small in height and weight, and had a very deep Southern accent.

My mother brought a tape recorder and conducted a thorough interview with Ollie.  I have this cassette tape today.  I am glad I had the foresight in the early 1990s to transcribe the interview and later convert the tape to CD.  Both my mother and great grandmother have since passed away and to hear their voices again brings tender emotions.  What it also brings is information over looked.  I have read the transcript numerous times, but it isn’t until you know the question you want to ask that you begin to look for the answer.

During our visit with Great Grandmother we were introduced to a man my mother as a child had called “Uncle Jay Bird.”  I was told he wasn’t in fact an Uncle.  In the South, family friends are often referred to as Aunt and Uncle.  Older cousins can sometimes be referred to as such, as well.  But back to the interview.  I was curious as to who this “Uncle Jay Bird” really might be.  How close of a friend was he or was there in fact a genetic relationship?  Reviewing the transcript, I found that Ollie revealed his name, Edwin Hill, as well as that of his brother, Bernice (yes, a brother!) who had recently passed away.  This clue was what I needed to further research Uncle Jay Bird.  In the interview, Ollie tells of Uncle Jay Bird being terribly abused by his step mother when he was growing up, and often Ollie would feed him and let him hide in the tree in her yard.

In the 1940 U.S. Federal Census, Edwin Hill is found living with my Great Grandparents and their two daughters (one being my grandmother Katherine).  This confirms the name she has given for Uncle Jay Bird, and if they were, in fact, as close as she claims, it isn’t surprising to find him living with my great grandparents during this census.  But then something else happened…  Ancestry DNA.

Several years ago, I took the Ancestry DNA test.  Those who have tested with Ancestry will tell you, you can go quite some time before you get a match that catches your attention.  Recently, I received a third cousin match with a grandchild of Bernice Hill, the brother of Uncle Jay Bird.  Shock and surprise! And yet, maybe not so much.  Reynolds, Georgia is a tiny town.  Cotton farms surround the area and little else.  The population there was small back in the day and even smaller now.  Many of the people living there are related to each other in one way or another.  But how is it that Uncle Jay Bird is related to me?

Doing a side by side generation comparison of Bernice’s grandchild back to Bernice’s parents, and giving allowance that due to some age gaps being greater than others, it appears that Bernice and Uncle Jay Bird may be my great grandfather Judson’s half brothers.  In most any other circumstance, I would be able to sort this out except for one small matter… Judson’s dad.  Judson’s father was known as General Wilson.  No, not A general.  That’s his name.  Try searching that name just after the Civil War era!  What’s more, General Wilson died at the age of 27 when Judson was just a few weeks old.  We have no parentage for General Wilson.  He is our Brick Wall.  One my mother spent her adult life trying to tear down.

And then there are the dates that put everything into a muddle.  Judson was born 1880.  Uncle Jay Bird was born in 1903.  Even if Judson had fathered Edwin Hill, that would not give us a genetic match for Bernice.  General Wilson died in 1880, so he cannot be the father of the Hill boys.  But what about Judson’s mother Louisa Brumbeloe Wilson?  Well, that is the next journey I am embarking on.

If Great Grandmother Ollie had not introduced me to Uncle Jay Bird, and had not given us his real name,  I would never have questioned his relationship to my family nor given much notice to his brother’s descendants who matched me in Ancestry DNA.  I feel as though Ollie is reaching out from beyond and trying to help me in solving this mystery.  Her clues have been great so far.  I hope to come across more as time goes on.

Great Grandmother Ollie was married when she was just 13 years old.  She lost 9 children before she carried my grandmother full term.  She had a big heart and the stories I have heard of her helping strangers in need are indeed a testament to her upbringing and giving nature.  She is my first ancestor I have researched and the first and only ancestor I had the good fortune to meet in life.  It seems fitting that I chose her to be the first ancestor for my 52 Ancestors in 52 weeks challenge.  Keep the clues coming Ollie!  We will solve the Uncle Jay Bird mystery yet, and perhaps along the way, tear down a long standing brick wall!

Tuesday, April 26, 2016

The Best of the Golden Age of Genealogy: Top Posts of April


 In case you missed it, here are the top three viewed posts of my blog in April.

Wait! What?!! What To Do When An Unexpected DNA Match Happens

Have you submitted DNA and found a close match of a relative you know nothing about?  It happens!  Take a look at this blog entry and share your story in the comments.


When You're Adopted, Which Ancestors Do You Choose?

I often hear from friends that they are uncertain as to which family line they should research.  When you are adopted, this is a question you might ask yourself.  I have shared my story here and would love to hear how you have dealt with adoption in your research.


BillionGraves Takes The Anxiety Out Of Searching For Loved Ones

A recent trip to Quantico National Cemetery gave me the opportunity to share the magic of BillionGraves.  When we visit our loved ones who have passed on, we want to spend time at their burial site and not wandering around aimlessly.  Has BillionGraves helped you locate ancestors?


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Sunday, April 10, 2016

When You're Adopted, Which Ancestors Do You Choose?

I have posted before about learning of my paternal adoption as a young adult, and I thought today I might address the issue of "Which ancestors do I trace as an adopted child?"  In the end, it was not a hard decision to make, but at first, I felt conflicted -- as though I was being disloyal to the ancestors I had honoured all my life.

When I was 17 years old, I learned that my mother had a previous marriage, and I was adopted by her second husband.  It is even a little more complicated than that, but, I will leave it at this to avoid any confusion.  I spent my teen years living with my family in Plymouth, Massachusetts, where my father was Historian General of the Mayflower Society.  My home was very much a genealogical home, and I believed that my dad's Mayflower ancestry was also mine.  In my childhood I wrote essays for school based on "my pilgrim ancestors."  I was proud of my heritage.

My dad as a young man.
I was very much a daddy's girl, and even though my father has passed away nearly 10 years now, I believe I still am.  The news of my adoption was a blow.  My older siblings (by dad's first marriage) assured me that he was still my dad, and in fact, they truly wanted to believe that through some act of God, he would also match me genetically.  We all wanted to believe it so much that I think we were a little shocked and disappointed when the DNA test came back clearly indicating he wasn't.  (Time and location of his life and my mother's didn't match anyway, but we can be dreamers!)

I should point out that I did not DNA test in my teens.  I tested in my 40s after my parents had passed away.  And, even armed with information regarding my mother's first husband's background, I was surprised when I received my DNA results.  My entire life I believed I was Scottish, Welsh, English and Native American.  Hmmmmm... here is what Ancestry DNA reported.


The 23andMe results were not much different.  Their database is larger, so the numbers vary somewhat.

The Norwegian and Irish stuck out to me the most, and I immediately became curious about the people whose DNA helped make me -- Me!

When I began researching my paternal line, it was with passionate curiosity.  I told myself that I was merely curious as to the locations my ancestors came from, but as I delved deeper into research, their names and stories began to emerge, and I grew to love them.  As I met relatives willing to share stories and pictures of more recent ancestors, a connection started to form.  Dare I say, bond?  My whole life I never looked like anyone in my family and suddenly I was seeing bits of myself looking back at me in photographs.
My birth father as a young man.

My biological tree began to grow and I was pleased.  Every now and then, however, I would take a look at my father's tree and wonder.  I missed those ancestors, so I began to work on my dad's line as well.  As a professional genealogist, my dad had done much of the leg work, but with the advent of the internet, and many documents being digitized and made available, I was put in the position to flesh out more of the individual stories through documentation and newspaper articles.  So what happened? I began to bond with these ancestors, too.

Love multiplies -- it doesn't divide.  My dad's ancestors were still my own.  The values and traditions they passed down to him, he passed down to me.  Their story is my story because I am continuing to pass those traditions and values down to my children.  But what about the genetic line?  I believe that they, too, are a part of me.  My passion for hard work and education.  My love for history and theatre.  My biological relatives tell me that my strong will and determination in these areas reflect their family.

I have a large family tree.  Oh, it is not without it's brick walls, trust me!  But it is full and vibrant with the love of many centuries of people who made me who I am today.  My tree may be grafted by different trees put together, but it is beautiful and I am proud of it.  So which ancestors did I choose to follow?  All of them.

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* If you are interested in learning more about DNA testing with Ancestry, go to dna.ancestry.com.  You may also be interested in checking out 23andMe.com*

Wednesday, April 6, 2016

Wait! What?!! What To Do When An Unexpected DNA Match Happens


I have to tell you, I love DNA testing, as far as genealogy goes.  Seriously.  When you find out as a young adult, as I did, that you have a possible different parent (or set of parents) than those who raised you, your mind goes reeling.  After the initial shock of learning I was adopted by my father, I would find myself daydreaming about who my biological dad might be.  Michael Landon fit the bill quite nicely.  It's true.  He was the dad I wanted to have if I couldn't be genetically related to the father who raised me.  He was, after all, Pa Ingalls!  I'm sure I wasn't alone.

All joking aside, I approached DNA testing as a shot in the dark and with fingers crossed.  I hit a total bull's eye when I connected with a second cousin who not only knew my biological father, but went to high school with him.  Her excitement pretty much matched my own and together we plunged into connecting me with my paternal line.  Why didn't I just ask my mom?  Well, those of you in similar situations understand.  As my mom used to say, "We don't talk about things like that!"  She is gone now.  I wonder at times what she thinks of this DNA journey I've taken.


I will say, the shock that rippled through the East coast of the United States was felt for months as relatives learned of this unknown child that suddenly made her appearance 46 years later.  It was exhilarating at times and other times down right frightening.  You have to understand, not all reunions are cozy and welcoming.  While my story didn't have a fairy tale ending, I did make some wonderful connections and the relationships to this day are becoming stronger.  You can read more about my DNA story on Ancestry's Blog.

I am used to being the DNA shocker in the family.  Granted it is only the paternal side of the family that was a surprise to me, as my mother who raised me is the same person who gave birth to me.  Nonetheless, the revelation ruffled feathers and gave me a glimpse of how it must feel for the relatives on the other side of the DNA reveal.  Well, I thought I understood how they felt.

Yesterday,  I opened my Ancestry DNA result page.  I used to stalk the page for updates the first year my results were in.  Lately, I remember to take a look when I suddenly get a notification that someone may have matched me.  Typically the results are within the  4-6th cousin range, so unless I'm looking to find some missing links to ancestors, I tend to be neglectful of the DNA page.  Yes, I know.  Shame. Shame. Shame.

Back to yesterday.  I was working on DNA research for a client and decided to take a peek at my own folder and was somewhat surprised to see a rather close match appear.  First - Second cousin.  Okay.  That could mean a few things.  It could quite literally be a first or second cousin.  Or, it could be an Aunt.  Or, a first cousin once removed.  There are a variety of scenarios and we have to allow room for error.

Here's the thing.  It's on my side of the family where 1. "The tree don't branch much," and 2. In the immediate levels of possible connection, the parents had only one or two children.  So.... basically, I know all my cousins -- on the first and second level.  (And sometimes even third and some removed.)  So, who had a baby a generation or so ago and didn't tell anyone?  The shock! And now it is our turn to wonder Who? When? Where? What?

So what do you do?  You keep it classy.  That's what you do.  You reach out to the individual and introduce yourself.  You ask a question or two and then you let the matter drop.  Allow them to process their own DNA thoughts.  They may not be aware of any situation that would lead them to an unknown family.  And when the time comes that they answer the message you sent, you respect their answers and any questions they have.

We live in a new generation.  There are not a lot of things that can shock us.  But I will say this.  DNA testing is very much like opening Pandora's Box.  You have to be prepared to expect the unexpected.  Plan ahead for all possible scenarios you could encounter and how you may want to respond.   And if you think that there may be some things that you just can't or won't be able to get past, then you may want to rethink taking a DNA test.

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